Ouch - that's a tough one and it doesn't sound like your W is making things easier for a 12 year old girl. I wouldn't worry about how your wife perceives it and would just focus on what your D needs. Would she like to have her mom at one of these events? How frequent are the showcases? Is there any chance of rotating them for a while?
D wants us both there I'm happy for D to go with her mum but daughter doesn't want that . I'm trying to explain to D that I'm not happy being in the same place as W . But D can't understand why .
Me 40 W 37 Together 22 years S18 D12 WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life After the 2 weeks she has left .