Daughter has just spent her 1 hour with mum and W has started the guilt trip about not seeing her performing and going on about how her sister is getting upset at not seeing her and her brother since the [censored] hit the fan . This has been made worse because I have rennected with my family who are helping out a lot. My W never got along with anyone in my family and over the years we have lost contact .
W made a comment to my D about I see you have got your new best friends ( which is aimed at my sister ) and D asked what she meant and wife replied with her name to my D . So D told her to go away in jerky movements . Basically foxtrot off.
My dilemma is W caused this and her sister was fully involved as in going out with W when she was meeting over man .
So I have real issues with my Ws sister also .
When W left she made it very clear she didn't want to see or hear from me . If her and her sister come to a showcase it's a small venue and I won't be able to avoid them .
This is 3 weeks after she left and I'm not really wanting to be anywhere near her let alone sat in a bar etc with her and her sister.
Problem is daughter won't go with them and wants me to go but I just can't do that at the moment .
I know I should take the high road and just agree but I won't be able to be civil . I won't say or do anything but my face and eyes will be so sad or angry about what has happened that I don't want daughter to be out in that situation .
I want to say to daughter that's it just to soon for this sort of thing to happen .
Any help or advice much appreciated .
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Me 40 W 37 Together 22 years S18 D12 WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life After the 2 weeks she has left .
