I'm so sorry, bdub. I wish I knew how to address this one.
I was married once before and we got wedding band tattoos. STUPID idea, so for me it's almost like a scar that will never heal. For my current wife, she easily took hers off two weeks after she left. I refuse to remove mine until I absolutely have to.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3