Starsky... You confuse me... I agree with you & then you give up??? What kind of response did you want from me?

Gbelle... I will not allow the 2yr plan turn into a 20 year plan. I am looking at a time frame of possibly Christmas.. and to see what he offers for the new year. If I don't hear what I need and see major progression towards it, then I am done.

Yes.. I have received a lot of wisdom from many many caring people on this site. I truly appreciate everyone and their experiences.

Yes...he likely feels that I am "waiting" & like he can do any thing and everything he feels. I don't understand how that makes him any different than ANYONE else on this sight. All MLC are selfish & feel entitled. All LBS are trying to be a lighthouse.

What am I doing that is so wrong?

I am not defending him.

When I state that I am careful, it means I am being careful. How is my situation so different then the others on here... can you explain it G-belle? or anyone?

Last edited by makingmagic; 10/03/14 03:36 PM.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)