I hear you Maybell. Moving is awful. I have a FB friend (someone from HS) whose H is in the military. They have moved a lot. I see from her posts that she finds the happiness in her life, in her family. She has embraced her life--even the hard parts-- and they have a strong marriage.
If the moving is a deal breaker for you, put it on the table when it gets to that point. Maybe he will seek out another job. But, and I say this with love, I am also realizing how toxic my own resentment was in my M. My H travels a lot for work. If we get back together, we can discuss ways to make that feel more manageable for me, but I can't just resent him for it all the time if I want to have a successful relationship. I have to accept that part of our lives as a team.
