You have received such wonderful wisdom from many. Please know that the 2 year plan may turn into the past 20 yr plan. I don't say that with malice-just honesty.
I don't think you've painted a bad picture. He doesn't sound like a deplorable human being. Just sounds like a guy who knows you are waiting for him and he can do anything and everything he wishes.
I am glad to hear you are okay. Good luck to you.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer