Oh Maybell I dont think it's controlling at all to want a loving R. Absolutely not! It's a similar thing I see on some threads. Sometimes people are afraid to let go of the reigns because if they do, the WAS may not "come around." There is always a risk with everything.
Labug is right. Life is full of uncertainty. Glad you have a fun weekend planned:-)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
