GB, I feel like my alternatives are:

1. Wait for him to make moves to come back
2. Throw in the towel and start dating, pursue the divorce, etc.

I want what I want. What I want is REASONABLE. It's not controlling another person for me to want a close loving relationship for myself.

I think I see what you're saying, I just don't know what to do about it.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.