Perhaps that is the issue? Waiting? It sounds like you are waiting for him to do something. What (just curious) is it that you are waiting for him to do? I'm not saying to do anything. I'm just not sure what you *expect* from him right now.
And I hope his doesn't sound harsh. From my perspective, it looks like you are still seeing yourself as a "we" (and I get that you legally are). In reality, I think you need to think about *you*. I know your h said he didn't want a D. I get that. However, you aren't really in a R with him either. So, really and truly..... What can Maybell do to make Maybell happy? Because regardless if whether you R, D or remain S for x long, that still is pertinent. I don't mean to sound dismissive. I know you want to save your M, not get a D, and not put your children through a D. They are going thru a good bit with a S.
I don't want to be D'd either. I am though. I dunno. Just what I see.
Last edited by Georgiabelle; 10/03/1403:03 PM.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
