Igit, yea, more or less taking a break. I still peek at the forum, but in all honesty I am probably taking a break from DBing itself. I just cant seem to find a reason right now to put any effort into W. I think I have justified it long enough thinking it would be best for the kids. But the reality is the kids have already been through a lot and continue to not understand. Not much I can do to fix that for them other than do the best I can given the circumstances.
I have basically been as NC with W as possible with the only exception being the kids. My GAL is still going strong and i am pretty content right now.
Anyways, I continue to wish all my DB friends here the best. I will keep checking in for now and post if anything really exciting happens.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16