Thanks Mighty and Ats! I understand you have had much to deal with lately M. I'm so sorry to read about your friend from work. You never really know what life has in store for you. Last year someone my W worked with (wasn't a friend, someone from another dept.) died in a house fire not far from our home. I remember my W saying "When she woke up that morning she had no idea that it was going to be her last day alive". I actually think, in her MLC state, it was another reason for her to go. She seems to feel that time is running out for her and if she doesn't start doing everything she wants "right now" she will never get to do it.
Hi Ats! You're right about my D14. I actually think it's worse for D19 because her mom has pretty much stopped caring. D19 has told me that when she calls to talk to her mom my W only will talk for a min or two and then say "I have to go" every time. She said when she calls me we always talk for a long time and I am interested in her life but her mom doesn't even bother to care. It's so sad for not only D19 but my W. You know that some day she is going to regret being this way now. She is acting like her father acted towards her most of her life and it really hurt her. She just can't see it right now.
As for this week end I'm not sure. I probably will spend much time on trying to find a new job and watching football on Sunday. It's so hard when you have NO money, and I will have D14 starting Sunday and I will need to be able to feed her and get her to school, etc. Ugh! So very hard!!
