Gut reaction is that it doesn't burn a bridge because it can always be signed back later. I would say that its only burning a bridge if its irreversible.

Plus its probably better for your kids and much as though we want to fix our marriages I think we have to have prioritise providing a safe and stable home for the kids.

Or to put an alternative slant - if she didn't and you had to move then that could be an even harder route back


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress