You've turned a corner. Your whole attitude has changed. You're focused on the future, on protecting your children, on making a good life no matter what kind of mud is slung in your direction.

I turned this corner as well but didn't realize -- until I saw this change in you. It's familiar, I recognize it. I did it, too.

I'm thinking, wow, this must be a stage in DBing. A form of acceptance of whatever will happen, will happen.

M:54, H:55
T:33, M:27
12/13 BD: EA
01/14 BD: PA, H leaves
03/14 H & OW break up
05/14 H says he will file for D
08/14 H initiates D
09/14 H wants to R
12/14 Still bungling our way through R