this morning I never sent my "good morning beautiful" text . later in the morning i sent a text updating her on a family situation and she responded immediately (not normal) i replied once but then didn't respond.
this evening felt a little weird. I started back to martial arts class (as part of my GAL) and my wife was supposed to go to a local pumkin farm / play event with my daughter and her friend and friends daughter. her friend cancelled so my wife took my daughter. she was going to buy some pumkins and flowers, but when she got cash out of the atm for the babysitter tomorrow, she said she didn't feel there was enough for her to spend on flowers an dpumkins so she didn't buy them. one of our issues has been finances. I take care of it all as she never really expressed any interest in it. I confirmed that there was enough, but she said she didn't know because she doesn't know what bills are due or paid. i just told her the other day that I paid bills and nothing would be due until the end of the month except her student loan and another payment that is auto deducted....which is why there was a little less (about $700) than I thought. She expressed disappointment about the situation and seemed to make it sound like it was MY fault. I printed the entire month schedule for bills and pay day(s) and put it by the calendar and again assured her we were fine. She didn't talk much and seemed somewhat cold. when she went to bed, she was pretty quick and avoided as much contact as possible.
me-42 w-33 d-3 together-6 m-4yr 6/1/14-w check out 6/15/14-EA? 8/1/14-mc 9/1/14-IDLY-started DBing 9/15/14-w suggest separation 10/17/14 wife is done 12/13/2014 - wife move out me file 1/1/15
