Wow, MM, how romantic of BF! What a great story to tell the grand kids "Yes, your GF said to me that he had a 2 year plan in place to get where he was in a position to "want" me in his life and well, if I didn't like it that was unfair pressure...., in fact he basically told me that if I wasn't willing to wait and not expect a single thing from him in that time I was free get lost. Yes, your GF was such a hopeless romantic....".
Are you really willing to settle for that, MM? You know how you give off an "independent vibe"? By being independent! We've been over this before, MM. Until you really truly can take him or leave him, until you love yourself enough to understand that he's lucky to have you in his life, he won't ever really want you! Why does this guy have such power over you? Answer: Because you allow him to!
