Pearl??

"As long as you are giving off the vibes that you'll be waiting for him he will not see you as someone of value."

From the position I am finally in now... it took almost 2 years to get here... how do you suggest that I give different vibes? please be specific...

He says he has a 1.5-2yr plan of how he can get to an end result with me... this includes me. He wants to spend time together (share accommodations) while he gets his house ready for sale. Meanwhile, spend time back and forth between 2 houses.

#1... I need to be independent (get my own house)
#2...


M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)