Let's try this again

[woundedfool]

And the only reason why I brought up who ended it is because I want an H that is back bc he wanted to me because we were his first choice. Not bc he got dumped and was lonely.

Oh... don't misunderstand me. I would not want to be a plan "B" either.

I have no real thoughts or advice here, other then:

I think you want to hear: "yea, she dumped me, and I realized I couldn't do better"

when it might be: "she dumped me, and I no longer had her as a distraction, I really took a moment to see what I was doing, and thought: you dumb SOB, you had everything a man could want and walked away... you better get your a$$ in gear and work to get 2B back!".