I am comfortable with him coming back as long as the changes are still happening and bad habits aren't resurfacing. You know MC is actually what even let me be open with the idea of letting H come home. I really hadn't planned on it based on what everyone was advising me here and my fear.
I hope I am not making a mistake. I trust the MC and my gut says go with it. But I def think I would have liked more courting, dating, pursuing. Oh well again. It's done. We have been having weekly date nights at H's initiation and planning (for the most part).
And the only reason why I brought up who ended it is because I want an H that is back bc he wanted to me because we were his first choice. Not bc he got dumped and was lonely.
