MM - read what you wrote....or his comment. I may be wrong but here is what I see.
"He realizes that its not so easy "out there" finding another therefore he wants to make an effort towards us"
Here is my interpretation of his statement......
Well RIGHT NOW you are the best I can do (cause I know I can manipulate you)...so you should be honor to be with me...so yeah...you can see me.
You deserve so much more that this. If only you could see it.
Said another way....Me? Personally....I would only date someone who WANTS to be with me - NOT because it is "hard out there". That statement if said to me, would make me feel like I am the second option....and I will NOT be someone's back up plan. F dat!
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
