You can put all the rules, regulations, no contact letters, no facebook, get rid of old love letters, pictures, and on and on and on and on into hoping your wife will come around......
The fact will always remain that unless your wife WANTS to willingly by choice do those things (and they WILL do them by choice willingly without prodding when you let go completely).. you are just wasting time trying to make her do things to prove something...
Tarheel.....
In my opinion you can't force or pressure someone into doing something and have it last if it isn't really what they want to do....
This is being proven again by you vs the vets trying to advise (pressure) you to do what they think is correct.....
I think we need to let you go and do it your way because that is quite honestly what you are doing anyway.... You are doing the same thing to the vets on here that your wife is doing to you.. Promising one thing and doing another....
