Depressed WAW, digging in, learning about myself

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We are both getting really stressed about our house. It's been sitting on the market for a month without a single offer, only one person remotely interested. When we listed it, we had finished 2 months of work on it, and the realtor loved it. Said it was going to get great reception and would have a chance to sell quickly. The first few visitors loved it, but just weren't interested in the area.

Suddenly, everyone hates it. Says it needs updates, etc. There really isn't that much left to update in the house. It has brand new carpet, brand new appliances, fresh paint all over the house, renovated exterior. So I'm waiting on the realtor to give me more info on what updates people are talking about. In the meantime I am losing patience on it. It was my dream home, wanted to stay there the next 30 years. Now I'm alone in it and have to listen to a bunch of strangers make petty criticisms on it. On top of all of that I'm DBing with a WAW still seemingly uninterested in our M. And my job is starting to become laughably impossible again. AHH! I have to scream that here because I can't anywhere else.