Trying to stay patient- part 5

[shodan]

Here is my thinking...not knowing the background of Tar's sitch...his W made a huge mistake. She knows it or at least we all hope so. But for whatever reason she is not ready to hand over her phone and provide full access. But perhaps she is willing to do things to show we is moving in the right direction. Canceling her FB account, for example? Providing more and more transparency every day until full transparency is there. Again, I am the novice but trying to keep an open mind.

But, I do agree that she should not continue to socialize with him and his friends. That frankly is a slap in Tar's face. If you are an alcoholic, you don't go to bars. Same here for his W's friends and the OM.