I wrote out a letter which I have ready to give her. Just haven't yet. I've not made any promises or even asked for forgiveness.
To an extent its just a list of what I think I've done wrong. Which maybe not so great. Maybe its just the way I've been raised but I always have had the belief that if you've done wrong then the path to forgiveness has to include a genuine apology.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress