Trying to stay patient- part 5

[shodan]

Tar,

I am interested to hear where you end up on full transparency vs. working on building back the trust. I totally understand the need for full transparency and why people on these boards advocate for it. But as a total novice at this, I also can see why the middle ground as a staring point might work. The former is a "rip the band aid off" approach while the latter is the "slowly remove the band aid" approach.