This is a great post. We are all human, have hopes and fears and know both love and hate. Sometimes bad things happen to good people. What matters is how we react to the bad things. We need to stop being victims of our circumstances. We can control ourselves. Do that. We cannot control the actions of another person. No matter how much the actions of the WAS hurts us, we need to be strong (after a natural grieving process) and move forward.


Me: 40, W: 40
M: 15, T: 18
D - 10, S - 7
D announcement 6/7/2014
A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W)
Still living together and sharing same bed