TO, I am happy to see positive things in your sitch.
I just wanted to caveat the forgive and forget thing...
It's important to not forget, yes, but make the remembering more about your feelings and less about the actions. Does that make sense? Remember how you FEEL about the actions you are forgiving. Move on from the action.
It makes sense in my head but sometimes I have issues with getting the awesome stuff from my head into words. LOL
