Thanks for your input Tarheel! I especially appreciate your positive words.

Interestingly, I discovered during MC that H has a buttload of anger towards me. It worries me but in some ways I see it as encouraging, anger is certainly more positive than indifference.

M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14