Let's try this again

[woundedfool]

We both had a calm conversation about how we both feel and things we need to continue to work on.

How big is that? I mean really, from where you were to where you are right now.

Stop and smell the roses... that is a huge thing.

But don't rest on it... keep the positive changes going.

So I would love to say I've let go completely but not yet. I know I will fully forgive one day.

This may sound vindictive... but while forgiveness is imperative. I think it would be naive to suggest that forgiveness = forgotten. I am not suggesting you carry a torch for it the rest of your life (or use it as a trump card in any discussion/argument/etc), but your healing from that will not only take a loooooong time.

I don't even know where I'm supposed to be posting do I apologize if it should to be here. I just don't feel were there yet and I'm not done DB'ing

I would say keep it here in newcomers. If this was better moderated (sorry moderators, I know there are not tons of you, and you can only do so much... but you ARE loved <3).