Newbie Errors- Restarting the R- part 2

[Bart42]

Starting a new topic as the old thread is full and my sitch is changing somewhat. Old thread here:

Newbie LRT Error- Part 1

In a nutshell, WAW wouldn't end the A, always denying it continued, but just had the blowout with the OM who wouldn't leave his GF, and now W wants to talk R.

So today's txt was "I want to move forward together" and I clearly have to figure out by the time I get home tomorrow how to handle this. So far my plan largely centers around Starky's "gee I don't know how I feel about that- I'm not sure" tact as I'm struggling with how to set/enforce my foundations for any R talk (NC, recognize prior deceit, transparency, etc.) without completely shutting down the R talk by pulling in all these other issues.

Any ideas or pointers to existing threads are greatly appreciated- I know I have to move slow and not seem eager to reconcile and let her pursue me, but I've been so focused on the GAL stages, I really don't yet have a handle on what are the best strategies for pre-piecing and restarting R talk.