My W says daily she loves me an only me and likes where we are going in the marriage. Basically, the only things she wants to do is spend more time together and do more things together. I am doing a lot of soul searching and asking her what I need to fix about me. I know I had a hand in our M drifting apart and I want to correct those issues.
But I can't help but be unsettled that the only thing she believes is necessary on her part is to stop the A. She was pushing me away for years and acting selfishly but doesn't seem to have any thoughts of doing anything to address issues I have with her. She wants nothing to do with talking about issues that got us here.
Should I just forget these issues and hope all the extra time, hugs, kisses etc will make it all better? I am being selfish and controlling in thinking she needs to address my issues with her too?
I need some advice here. I don't want to find out in a few years that the only thing that was solved was she is better at hiding her A and found a better OM than this one.
