"I'm so glad you were already here when you found out"

Me too! I wish so badly I had found this site sooner, I think I really would have handled the immediate aftermath a lot better.

Shakspr, have been following your thread for a while, so sorry to see what you're going through these last couple of days. Don't have advice, just thinking of you and sending manly, (but not in an awkward way) hugs.

Me:33 W:32
T 12yrs M 3yrs
House, No kids
6/16/14 BD 1+yr PA disclosed
9/1/14 Requested divorce, in house S