In limbo, need to figure out next steps (thread #5

[shodan]

I have no idea whether or not my wife is still in her A. The evidence that I have would be enough to find her guilty in a civil court, but not sure in a criminal court (95% probability, beyond a reasonable doubt). I am very confident that something happened with the OM but it could have been very short lived. She went from spending 4-6 days per week in NYC, being super cold towards me, etc. back in June/July to being warmer towards me, trying to connect with me in conversation and only spending 8-9 nights away from home in the past 7-8 weeks. This clearly could be cake eating, but the substantial decrease in nights away from home/in NYC is pretty telling (more than 60% of her time to less than 20% of her time).

Despite writing this, I am not trying to think too much about her and the A. I just thought the data was interesting to analyze.

All I can do is move forward, be a great dad and work on me. Her journey is in God's hands. I cannot control her.