Originally Posted By: dying
assuming the "5 LL" quiz is love languages? I think i printed that out a month ago intending to ask her to fill it out but never had the opportunity that felt "right" because she is always defensive.

That's the one. You can do the online one in 10 minutes (and it's free). You know your spouse better than you think. Just hear her voice in your head as you answer the questions. It's a great exercise. Or, if you DO have a good moment, have her fill it out herself. Might be a great demonstration that you are trying hard to see things from her POV.


Me: 43 XW: 43
T15 M14
D21, SS15, S11, D8
BD: 8/6
EA / possible PA discovered 9/29
D final 10/20