Sex is also my H love language, and its a 180 for me to initiate and be available when he initiates. ML/Sex was one of the things in the past when I was a WAS that was a BIG issue in our M.
We both initiate and I have not turned it down yet.
I guess us LBS just have to remember to not allow the sex/ML to take over our emotions or to make us have expectations that our H cannot deliver on at this time.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
