That is some amazing advice. I understand how hard it is to let go, but Eric has given you some nuggets of knowledge. Read it and then re-read it and read it again. Let it sink in. This is a long hard journey, but it needs to be for you.
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile