No, it wasn't the point. I'll let Labug speak for herself but the point is that to fix or at least understand where things went wrong you have to know where you were when they were good.
I wish I understood men better. How you are responding to this is so different from how I felt when I found out.
Sending you a big ol' validating hug.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15