I have done that, but he's holding into bits that are mine, he seems to want you to go round. I haven't been just going round, this time was the first since april. I organised a time, expected to pick up a box but got there to have to follow him round while he collected up items.
Deliberate painfulness on his side, to ambush.
The mediation is over joint property which is what he classified some of the items I wanted. He earns more than me, he can more easily replace items than I can. I had to work up to 3 jobs to get where I have, but the thing is he thinks if he treats people bad enough with enough disrespect. he will win and be rewarded as most will let it go.
Thus proving he can go back again and again for another bite. Hence I want it stopped, it will only stop if I don't back down. He looks at those who walk as weak and ripe to be picked off.
Some back story, he took my s16gun and the magazine( legally in his name) Twice he told people he didn't have the magazine, we didn't give it to him, my son was disrespectful and lost it and now is blaming him for the loss etc. he actually had it, when I confronted him, and stood firm it got returned.
I will not go back to his house ever. He knows I will call the police if he comes here uninvited as he has done.
Pearl you have no idea how resolute I can be once my mind is set. I went 100% nc still hold that, the only contact will be mediation. I have attended a funeral which he was at and still maintained nc. Things are better if I hold firm, me being to easy going was a complaint of his.
I'm really wanting the whole mediation out of the way, him dragging his feet is not helping.
Last edited by Ggrass; 10/02/1408:13 AM.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
