Shining, good for you for the amazing control you had with the texts. I know, firsthand, how hard it is to control your "fixer" instinct! I think some people think it's to control things, from my perspective I was always just trying to help and save them the trouble with my already discovered solution, LOL! Working on that myself.
I like your "fun sized" detachment! That's a start, right? I think mine is flea-sized at this point.
The advice and words you have been from uR and AJS are amazing. I'm gonna come back here and re-read them myself until they sink in.
Amazing support here. Really and truly.
Me- 40 H- 41 S8, D5, S4 M 19 y T 23 Bomb drop 6/2013 H asked for/filed for D 9/2014 22 yo OW discovered 9/19/14 they're engaged and living together
