I've read so much stuff now that says I need to work on my stuff - which I agree with because I don't like what I've become and what that did to my R - its just hurtful in the way this plays out where both of us are in the position that this is 100% my fault.
I read on someone's thread the quote 'the grass is greener where you water it'. I really like this because neither my W or I did anywhere near enough to tend our grass and now she is looking to the neighbouring meadows where she thinks it will be greener (not helped by her mate who is encouraging this view)
Sorry I think I'm just venting now. I've spent years bottling up emotion and now I can't seem to for even 24hrs
Last edited by jim0987; 10/02/1405:21 AM. Reason: grammar
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
