Sorry, was out of town then sick (I always catch something when I fly these days).
Keep working on detaching. Try not to spend any time thinking about H's motives or actions. Doesn't matter--not your problem. Your job is to keep moving forward and working on you.
And in line with working on you, I humbly suggest that you do some reading on boundaries. From this outsider's point of view you could be helped by implementing them with your son. I understand that teenagers are difficult but there's no reason he should be treating you with such disrespect. When you allow it you teach him that H's way of treating women is correct and son will go on to treat the women in his life that way. No good for everyone.
Glad you're enjoying the new clothes and confidence boost they bring. Been there, done that! Unfortunately I've gained the weight back over the years so a lot of my new infidelity diet wardrobe doesn't fit anymore. That's why I believe in shoes.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
