Sooo, I didn't take anyone's advice including my own. Couldn't just stfu. Sent an email, in response to confirming parenting-and car-sharing plan for our upcoming holiday weekend...
"Sure. That plan sounds fine.
"H, I'm so sorry for my role in bringing us to this place-- where you've lost hope for our marriage and feel like this is how our lives have to be. And I do wish you peace and happiness in this new year." Already knocked myself in the head with a 2x4. So be gentle on my bruised noggin.
Sigh.
Claire girl, you need some padding for the helmet you SHOULD be wearing!...
Yes I'll post more later but I promise I will be gentle. OTOH, maybe you should take some aspirin, you know, just in case?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016