Stopped at a used bookstore not even planning to look for DR (I'm a record collector) and found it for $5! An omen? Read 60 pages at the gym and I'm already way more into it.
W didn't come home to help with kids this morning. Just texted asking if I could handle it. Difference is this time I was fully expecting it so I wasn't stressed at all. Everyone got to school on time and I had a nice hour long convo with my dad.
When W texted asking if it was ok for me to handle kids, I waited 20 mins and then simply replied "the kids are at school". Later she texted "thank you for this morning". I acknowledged the text but did not affirm the thank you. I know it's minor but I don't even want to dedicate one word to validate her doing this. I'll talk to her about her day all she wants to, but no word about this.
I'm contemplating more significant 180s I can do, will post progress. One big one I keep coming back to is quitting smoking. My W and I both smoke and we've always talked about quitting together. If I did it without her it blow her mind. But it would also drive me insane!
M: 33 W: 33 M: 9 T: 10 3 S's: 8, 6 and 1.5 BD: 8/3/14 Living together