Divorced and moving out.....still hopeful

[MrBond]

""the opposite of love is not anger, it's indifference." I care about my WAW, she created this situation. I am angry at that, not her. I love her, but have to show indifference."

That's not exactly the context which they are referring indifference to. It usually refers to the idea that when your spouse acts angry or emotional towards you, they have some kind of emotional connection to you still. Anger shows that your words can still hurt them. However, if they show indifference (where they don't show any emotion one way or another), then it's harder to re-establish feelings with them.