Claire what does this mean to you? That you absolutely want to be M to your H or that you don't want to be a divorced mom?
I will freely admit that some of my heartburn about being D has nothing to do with H. Despite statistics, D is unusual in my social circle. It would be awkward. But that's not the same as wanting to be in a R with a particular guy. Understanding the difference has been important to sorting out my feelings.
And no, I don't think the bath text requires a reply.
