I am still hanging in there, doing real good with the detaching and letting go and it feels great. I am actually and honestly looking forward to H being away this weekend and having time at home alone with S. I wanted to share with others a few messages that help me tremendously:

Let go of what was and take hold of what is

H is losing out on time with ME

Let coming to me be his choice, not mine

Stop expecting normal

Thanks everyone and I hope these can help others too:)


Me 48 H 46 S 11
M 2004
BD 8/13
H moved out 2/15
-live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-