Maybell XIV

[Maybell]

I got an invoice and letter from my lawyer. The balance has fallen below an agreed-upon level and I need to replenish with the full amount again.

This is a pretty large amount of money and I'm going to need to alert my husband before I make the payment. We've been up-front and cooperative about finances through this experience and I'd like to keep that part positive.

My dilemma is that he was specific that he does not want a divorce, but IF we reconcile, I'm going to want a post-nup. Since I seriously do not want to have a relationship talk at this stage, how do I talk to him about paying an attorney money that he assumes would go towards a divorce he knows I don't want?

I want to keep my attorney on retainer while we are going through this so that I continue to feel protected in case things go scary south.

Thanks!