I say this with love... but I think your next goal should be to move from tragic to very, very disappointing. Because whether or not the marriage is recoverable, you definitely are.
I'm starting to worry about you. You've lost that strong PMA you had a couple of months ago when you were passing out 2x4s like a lumberjack. Where did it go?
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15