Claire-- Is DB Worth it? Part 8

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I agree with, Maybell. I think it's ok to occasionally show that we are human and express our thoughts and feelings about the events that have unfolded. Besides, it's a freakin' big elephant in the room…it would be rather unnatural to be able to ignore it all the time! I worry about what it would say about it me if I could do that!

Claire, I said something similar to my H on the weekend and he surprised me by saying "it's not you, it was the relationship." I'm mixing up all the stories on here so can't quite recall the specifics of your sitch, but it's possible your H may not even acknowledge the roles that either of you played in getting to this point.