Originally Posted By: stacey9
I know he must be surprised by some of these, they are not major things but I do feel stronger.


That's the key, Stacey. When you feel strong you can conquer the world!

We split finances before we separated and I was absolutely devastated when H proposed it. At the time it seemed to be such a definitive blow. Yet…4 months on I'm still here and H isn't sounding quite so confident about his decisions. Yes, there is always hope.

You know what to do. Above all, take care of yourself. Seek the information you need to be informed about how to look after your financial interests. GAL with friends. Stay calm. Keep on keeping on.


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014