Claire-- Is DB Worth it? Part 8

[Maybell]

I maintain it's OK if you don't have any expectations. Some things we have to do for our own peace of mind, even if it doesn't draw our spouse closer. So now, reap the peace and keep moving forward. It will have been worth it if you can feel lighter. He can't reasonably expect that you feel good about where you two are anyway, so all you've done is give him information about how you're processing your circumstances in light of the time of year.

In any case, since you did it, you need to be OK with it.